Attachment styles in adults aren’t personality flaws—they’re nervous system strategies shaped by early relationships. This post explores why closeness, distance, and conflict can feel so intense—and how awareness opens the door to change.

The anxious–avoidant trap isn’t about being “too much” or “too distant.” It’s about two people trying to feel safe, using opposite strategies, and accidentally triggering each other in the process.

Create your holiday tool kit to help move through the holidays with less stress and more confidence.

Learn strategies and become more mindful of the impact seasonal shifts have on our mind and body.